Be Ye Angry And Sin Not
Scripture Reading: Ephesians 4:26—“Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath.”This message explores how believers can handle anger biblically without falling into sin.
I. The Reality of Anger
A. Anger is a God-given Emotion
- God Himself expresses anger (Psalm 7:11 — “God judgeth the righteous, and God is angry with the wicked every day.”)
- Jesus showed righteous anger (John 2:15 — when He cleansed the temple)
B. Not All Anger is Sinful
- Ephesians 4:26 commands us to “Be ye angry” — implying anger in itself is not sin
- It’s what we do with our anger that determines if we sin
II. The Risk of Sin in Anger
A. Anger Can Turn into Wrath
- James 1:20 — “For the wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God.”
- Anger becomes sin when it is driven by pride, revenge, bitterness, or malice
B. Warning Against Lingering Anger
- “Let not the sun go down upon your wrath” (Ephesians 4:26b)
- Prolonged anger leads to bitterness (Hebrews 12:15)
- Harboring wrath opens the door to the devil (Ephesians 4:27)
III. Righteous Ways to Handle Anger
A. Respond, Don’t React
- Proverbs 15:1 — “A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.”
- Control your tongue; don't let emotions dictate your response (Proverbs 14:29)
B. Bring It to God in Prayer
- Psalm 37:8 — “Cease from anger, and forsake wrath: fret not thyself in any wise to do evil.”
- Vent vertically (to God) before venting horizontally (to others)
C. Seek Reconciliation
- Matthew 5:23-24 — Be quick to resolve conflicts
- Colossians 3:13 — “Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another...”
IV. The Example of Christ
A. Controlled Zeal
- Mark 3:5 — Jesus looked around “with anger, being grieved for the hardness of their hearts”
- His anger was always rooted in love and justice, never selfishness
B. Forgiveness at the Cross
- Luke 23:34 — “Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do.”
- Even when wronged, Jesus did not retaliate in anger
Conclusion:
Ephesians 4:31-32 (KJV) — “Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you... And be ye kind one to another...”
- Let God shape your heart so anger doesn’t control your actions
- Be quick to forgive, slow to speak, and always seek peace
Application/Call to Action:
- Examine your heart: Is your anger righteous or selfish?
- Commit to dealing with offenses biblically and promptly
- Ask the Holy Spirit for self-control and a heart of mercy